How to Free Yourself from Relationship Drama Once and For All

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Why do I keep dating the same type of person that is wrong for me? Why do I continually have highs and lows in my relationship? Will I ever really find the right person, or am I just going to be alone forever?

Do any of these questions sound familiar? Well, if they do, you are probably like countless other people (including myself) who have at one time or another been caught up in a Relationship Infinite Loop.

Infinite Loops are cycles we fall into without even realizing that we are essentially repeating the same patterns and not getting the results we want. When it comes to relationships, you can fall into Infinite Loops while you are looking for the right relationship and you can also fall into an Infinite Loop even when you are in a relationship.

I know I fell into plenty of my own. I can think about so many past relationships that I stayed in for too long just because I was caught up in an Infinite Loop. And, on the flip side there were also those times when I wasn’t in a relationship, continually felt lonely, and thought I was never going to find the right person – once again, I was caught up in an Infinite Loop.

Break out of the Relationship Infinite Loop

I committed to freeing myself from all Relationship Infinite Loops and I want you to join me. It’s time to put an end to all the relationship drama once and for all.

And, all you have to do is take the right steps that will set you free. Just like it works with breaking out of any Infinite Loop, the first thing you have to do is recognize you are in one:

If you have been looking for the right person for sometime but can’t seem to find them, you are not meant to search forever and never find anyone.

You are meant to break out of the Infinite Loop.

If you are in a relationship that just feels ho-hum and blasé too much of the time. You aren’t supposed to continue to feel this way in your relationship.

You are meant to break out of the Infinite Loop.

If you are in a relationship that has continual highs and lows and just doesn’t feel functional, that’s not the way it is supposed to work.

You are meant to break out of the Infinite Loop.

If you keep dating the wrong person time and time again. You aren’t supposed to keep falling into the same trap.

You are meant to break out of the Infinite Loop.

The Possibility of Today:

1. Recognize that you are in an Infinite Loop and commit to breaking out.

2. Devise a good plan to break out of the loop. It’s time to find a way out of the Infinite Loop and that means you are going to need really push yourself to do things differently than you have in the past. Do research, ask people who have successful relationships what they did. Be thoughtful and creative.

Some Specific Suggestions:

Are you alone and looking for the right person?

Become the person you want to find. Do you want someone that is thoughtful, honest and kind all the time? Make sure that you are thoughtful, honest and kind all the time. Do you want someone that is successful, has their financial house in order and is in good shape? Make sure that you are all those things. Turn into your ideal mate and as strange as it may sound, your ideal mate will come your way.

Are you in a relationship that needs to improve in one way or another?

Work together and create a written plan on what you can both do to improve your relationship. We have plans for so many other things in our life, but when it comes to relationships, it’s easy to fall into the trap of accepting the status quo or thinking that things are just going to magically improve. You both need to commit to working on your relationship and a written plan helps you keep the things you need to do top of mind.